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Continue to ChatIt's not the cost (although that pinches), or the time (though that grinds). After a while, it's the sheer galling indignity of being asked to prove, pay, and prove all over again that you're a worthy parent. Any true parent will tell you that that is impossible to prove in advance. - Scott Simon from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/it-s-not-the-cost-although-that-pinches-or-the-time-though-that-grinds-after-a-while-it-s-the-sheer-galling